Monday, November 30, 2009

My boyfriend is taking the jokes too far!!help!?

the other day he told me he had just found out he had hiv....and then he told me it was over...and that he couldnt risk giving it to me..but we had already slept together so i was afraid i could have it too..he kept the joke going untill i was crying and going crazy..then he says" na baby im just playin i just wanted to see what u was gonna say"....i mean why would he take a joke that far..he is always joking around like this! i told him befor not to joke around like this..he says he wouldnt anymore but he keeps on doing it..its so annoying..is it normal for a joke to go that far?i mean ive cried befor from other jokes he played on me and i thought since he made me cry he would want to stop but he hasnt yet so i dk what to do...



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Your boyfriend sounds like a real piece of work , and i don't mean that in a good way , you should dump him and find someone who is not emotionally abusive , if he is this bad now , god forbid your relationship should go any further , it will only get worse , not better , trust me , dump him now !!



My boyfriend is taking the jokes too far!!help!?

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your boyfriend is a piece of classless ghetto sh!t.



no...it's not normal. it's utterly appalling. I think he needs some time volunteering in an AIDS clinic. (y un pocito mas tiempo aprendiendo como hablar ingles sin cafreria.)
your bf sounds like an immature jerk
That is a terrible thing to do to someone. He gets enjoyment out of seeing you suffering, that is sick. Get out of that relationship, that is not normal at all.
He probably does have HIV and is just saying he is joking. Get tested!
Immature
That is a good one. He sounds like a fun guy.



You should post this in the "Jokes and Riddles" category.



Also, if he tries again to tell you he has HIV or something, just say, "that's okay, so do I".
Sorry but he's an ********. It's not a joke...
forget about him. You don't want to be with somebody so immature anyway.



Saying you might have HIV is not a joke, it's just plain cruel.
tell him you're pregnant.....that should wipe the smile off his smug face!
he's not ready to be "boyfriend" material!!!
whoa.. that's a predicament.



just be straight and serious with him.



tell him one of these days he's going to push it to the point of jeopardizing your relationship. let him know that it HAS to stop, it's not an option. reassure him that joking around is completely fine but sometimes he takes it way too far and it's very upsetting for you.
thats awful..he shouldnt joke about something so serious especially hiv....just in case he wasnt kidding you should get checked just in case good luck..
get tested...dump him..
He sounds a bit insecure to me.
maybe he likes wen u cry?



or maybe he just like teasing u



or maybe it is time u breakup
ive got a best friend that likes to play sick jokes like that on his gf and i told him if i was his gf id have left him first time he tried that crap.....



sounds like u need a new bf.....one who wont play stupid "jokes" on you because i dont think that if he loved you he would keep doing that after you talked to him about it....so yeah good luck with that
That's nothing to joke about. I would still think twice that he may be telling the truth. make him get tested. let him know u don't like those games.. he is playing around with your life in other words. does he take anything seriously?
He just sounds a bit immature. Next time just don't believe him. Why don't you play a little joke on him for a change. You may be able to worry him enough that he will not like it and he will feel what it's like to be in your shoes.
My boyfriend pulls this crap all the time! I have learned to take nothing he says seriously. Usually if it is something that extreme like having HIV, it's probably a joke. From now on when he says something completely off the wall just nod and say 'uh-huh'.....that's what I do. If he is being serious and not joking you will learn by his reactions to you not seeming to care when he is being serious and not BSing you.
you can find somebody that will treat you with some respect... sorry but if i was with someone who made me cry and then didn't stop what he was doing I would dump him. he obviously doesn't care
That's not a joke! Jokes are supposed to be funny. That's just plain cruelty. He clearly just likes to manipulate your feelings, he likes the control of being able to make you cry.Get away from him he sounds like a freak with a God complex.
See if he likes the taste of his own medicine.......Tell him your pregnant and have a positive urine test to show him when you tell him.



STOP HAVING UNSAFE SEX then you dont have to worry about it.
That's not a joke...that's emotional abuse. Get away from him and do it NOW, before he hurts you even worse.
thats f@$#ed up. if he loved u he would never wanna c u cry.
wow my moms bf did that one tyme she was p!$$ed
well...thats too much. i hope he knows that he was joking with the right fem because there some that would have seriously hurt him.



i would still get tested and see how he feels then...and you still need to do it for you because maybe his joke was the truth and thats how he got out...



you should really be opened with him about the jokes...some people do that and thinks its funny even if you cry. my boyfriend does that too, but i told him how i felt and it could just be his personality.
He said he would stop, if he hasn't you need to sit down and talk to him about it.



If he doen't stop at least 1-2 days after, then you have a problem.Tell him if he doesn't stop he'll lose you and your love forever.It might knock some sense into him.
Your bf definitely took that joke too far; honestly I dont know if I would be able to forgive him and I definitely wouldnt have sex with him anytime soon if I were you. He sounds very immature if he can not understand why that joke was so inappropriate. Everytime he makes a stupid joke, ignore him, or have a smart comment to get him back with; just make sure he gets the picture that you dont appreciate his jokes and they arent funny. You might also wanna be on the look out for a better man and if you do,make it known to him that you are doing so.
Get yourself tested, immediately.
You got to get him back big time.



This will work. Get other people to help you pull it off.

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